Me Either

'So we don't have much knowledge in grief,
“我們無法化解悲傷
So this mass of darkness makes us small.
會在一團黑暗中感到如此渺小
So in some ways, not having practices
有些時候啊，難以從
To move through grief keeps our life small.
讓我們感到無助的悲痛中走出來
When we step across that threshold
可是跨過這道悲傷的坎兒
And enter the room of grief,
就又走進另一間充斥著悲傷的房間了
It has a way of opening up the rest of our life.
那就是餘生了
So part of what our grief is waiting for is the village to show up,
所以呢，一部分的悲傷的存在就是為了等待一些能聽你訴說悲傷的人啊
And the village can be small, you know.
可能只是稀稀寥寥的幾個人
If we have only two or three people gathered
即使只有兩三個人
To sit down and say ' tonight
相依而坐，說：
Tonight, I want to tell you about my sorrow.
'今晚，想和你說說我的傷心事。
I'm telling you something so deep about me.
那我將會告訴你最真實的我
Why I'm angry is because something got to me so much
我為什麼這麼憤怒，那是因為有些事確實使我崩潰
At the heart of who I am.
徹骨心涼
Something I love, something I cherish,
那些我愛的，我珍惜的，
Something I want to protect has been injured and violated.
我想保護的，被傷害，被侵犯了
So I need to tell you about this, so you know me more deeply.'
我想要向你傾訴這些，讓你了解我多一點。 ’
So there's this perpetual,
所以啊，這就是這永恆的
Ongoing feeling of loss that we never really resolve.'
我們永遠不能擺脫的失落感。”